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Intro to the Survey Nov. 19, 2025
When I started asking the unmarried about their sex lives, survey mavens told me this was the first ... Read More
Menopause Changed My Body, My Marriage and My Faith in My Doctors Nov. 14, 2025
Menopause is having a moment right now, and I hope it becomes a movement. I'm a 50-year-old perimeno... Read More
Core Questions (Part 1) Nov. 12, 2025
These are the core questions asked of every participant in my sexuality survey of single people. See... Read More
Personal Inventory Nov. 05, 2025
Relax your body before you start this questionnaire. It's important you start this with shoulders lo... Read More
Pregnant and Postpartum Women Face Neglect and Abuse in ICE Detention Nov. 03, 2025
Rights & Resistance with the ACLU
*Names have been changed to protect identities Shackled and chained while miscarrying, denied prenat... Read More
How Do I Love Perimenopause? Let Me Count the Ways Nov. 01, 2025
Menopause is so hot these days. All the cool kids are doing it, a coincidence that marks the last t... Read More
Toxic Femininity Oct. 31, 2025
"Why Can't a Woman Be More Like a Man?" — Henry Higgins Those are the words librettist Alan Ja... Read More
Agree or Disagree? (Part 2) Oct. 29, 2025
Here's the second part of this quiz. Do you agree or disagree with the following statements? —... Read More
Agree or Disagree? (Part 1) Oct. 22, 2025
Here's another quiz for your enjoyment. Do you agree or disagree with the following statements? R... Read More
Answer Me This Oct. 15, 2025
Feeling a bit jumpy from the day's news — and grind? Well, you're invited to kick off your sho... Read More
Defensiveness (Part 2) Oct. 08, 2025
Continuing on this most important issue for the ladies — defensiveness — I'm asking you ... Read More
Defensiveness -- Fortress Thinking (Part 1) Oct. 01, 2025
If you've been with me for a while now, you've probably gotten the message that most of the rough sp... Read More
What's at Stake as the Supreme Court Takes Up Transgender Sports Bans Sep. 29, 2025
Rights & Resistance with the ACLU
Over the last five years, politicians across the country have targeted transgender people and our fa... Read More
Workaholism -- Part 2 Sep. 24, 2025
The first step in rehab for a workaholic is to say out loud: "I am a workaholic. I've been using my ... Read More
Workaholism -- Part 1 Sep. 17, 2025
When career becomes life and there are virtually no boundaries between them, work stops being the co... Read More
The Other Woman Speaks Sep. 10, 2025
DEAR SUSAN: This is my response to your recent column about single women dating married men. You tel... Read More
Dear Jon Letters Sep. 03, 2025
DEAR READERS: Do you think being me is easy? Do you think being behind a computer much of the day &#... Read More
Love -- And All That Good Stuff Aug. 20, 2025
As long as we're on the subject of partnership in love — aren't we always? — and the dif... Read More
Healthy Brainwashing for You (Part 1) Aug. 13, 2025
Trust me. What I'm about to suggest is beneficial. Yes, it may fall into the category of auto-sugges... Read More
Bringing Women's Stories to the Forefront in a Forbidden World Aug. 08, 2025
You never know where an opportunity might take you, but there are just some people you trust when th... Read More
